I think it's not actually straight talking in practice. I realise that I would actually need to be more deliberate about explaining my decisions. Most of the time I probably say "this is terrible" and neglect to add that I'm making a conscious but personal decision to ignore it, and then I am occasionally called out on hypocrisy (and perhaps behind my back far more often than I know).(o)(o) wrote:@Gumboot - I may not agree with you, but straight talking.. I can respect that.
I don't really get why people think that way, but apparently they do. By the same logic I could say "bacon is unhealthy", and then be called a hypocrite for eating bacon.
I mention these things to people because they seem to care. I rarely want to influence their behaviour (if I do I'll say so directly), but offer them an opportunity to make an informed decision; even if that decision is the same as mine -- to accept that the world is a really, really shitty place and that nobody has the power to change it.
Or maybe my motivation is to break people. I think there's only room for idealism when you're ignorant of the extent of the problem. When you realise that the whole world is built of unmitigated awfulness of every kind you can either cry yourself to sleep every night for the rest of your life, or you can give up and accept hedonism as the only sane way.
I'd still refuse shark fin soup, though. I'm sure that makes me a hypocrite.




