skweek wrote:The problem that you talk about is just human nature though.
Yes. Absolutely right. It's just human nature and happens everywhere.
So why am I being called "paranoid" above?
But, well, wars are in human nature too. Doesn't mean there's no place emphasising from time to time that wars aren't right.
Greed is part of human nature. Doesn't mean it isn't a problem.
Et cetera.
I understand why it's happening. Otherwise, I would have gotten "paranoid" and then left the group thinking that I was "being picked on" but, no, it is, indeed, just human nature that this happens sometimes. That's why 99.999% of the posts I've made say nothing about it, I've not gone off in a huff and I'm not "paranoid" about it at all. Et cetera, et cetera.
Nevertheless, that doesn't mean not mentioning it when I feel it is happening.
Again, to draw the analogy, wars will inevitably keep happening over the course of human history because, well, humans are idiots. But that doesn't mean that, for example, I should just sit back and accept the Iraq war and say nothing, just because it's "ineviable" that some world leader at some point in time will go to war.
You know, kids are hit by cars and buses every day on the roads. Doesn't mean you just sit there with a box of popcorn and enjoy the show, when a kid stupidly runs out in the road.
Yes, conflict is human nature. As is people's "herd mentality" - moo! - but, you know, doesn't mean you just sit back and watch Jews sent to the gas chambers, commenting "well, it's just human nature that someone might try to commit genocide at some point".
I'm possibly being awkward for voicing a "taboo" which might be uncomfortable, but I'm not being unreasonable nor out of place nor "paranoid" nor anything else.
In fact, the "paranoid" assertion proves my point a little bit.
It is, indeed, human nature to simply call someone "insane" when they might be saying something we don't like to hear, instead of facing the actual problem. Which was basically the point I was driving at.
I'm not "blaming" anyone - I know, in this modern age, that's a bloody first - but just pointing out that, you know, a spade is a spade.
See? Churchill's right. If you get over the "denial" and face the problem then it usually turns out to not be half a big a deal as you thought it was when you were "fearing speaking the taboo".
Yes, it's just human nature. But one of the less desirable aspects of human nature like greed, jealousy and that kind of thing. So, where possible, best not to do it.
There. Take that thought on board when answering other people (and I will try to do the same myself) and that's the problem faced and, hopefully, in time, solved.
Wasn't so bad in the end, was it?
As I'm on a roll with the quotations:
"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself"
- Franklin D. Roosevelt
p.s. Yes, I've invoked Godwin's Law above. Delibrately.

"Words ought to be a little wild - for they are assaults of thought on the unthinking."
- John Maynard Keynes