Umm......where do I begin?

phattslagg · Post by **phattslagg** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 8:51 pm 0

*hugs*

aureole · Post by **aureole** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 8:54 pm 0

*hugs*

I'm so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your family.

mamemeister · Post by **mamemeister** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 8:55 pm 0

Oh no.

I'm so sorry Em, theres nothing I can say.

*hugs*

Purple Grapefruit · Post by **Purple Grapefruit** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 9:05 pm 0

Sorry to hear of your loss.

starshipcommand · Post by **starshipcommand** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 9:11 pm 0

<hugs>

Kamineko · Post by **Kamineko** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 9:22 pm 0

There's nothing I can say... *hugs*

Alarm · Post by **Alarm** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 10:45 pm 0

*hugs* You and your family are in my prayers.

DeanoC · Post by **DeanoC** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:03 pm 0

Very sad news, best wishes for you and your family...

darkladywolf · Post by **darkladywolf** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:03 pm 0

Wife_Of_Snake wrote:I'm sat here with my brain saying 'What the fuck?' at me right now....

I got a phonecall from my mum at 6am (it's now 7:20am), who told me that in the early hours of this morning my sister Heather died, from a blood clot in her leg. (she had been to the doctors complaining of it a week ago, and he said it was a muscle spasm)

I spoke to my aunt who said she had died peacefully. So I'm very much glad of that.

The one picture that is going through my head right now, is saying bye to Heather at Teesside airport, two years ago, as I left to come to Canada

I just don't know how to feel, with being so far away....

It really hasn't hit me yet!

Have to say *HUGE* hugs to Spirit and Atty for chatting to me online. I love you both to bits!

*just hugs, sending all the love she has*I'm online if you need me, love.

MrsSnake · Post by **MrsSnake** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:47 pm 0

My mum phoned me again, and we managed to chat this time. Also spoke to my cousin Maggie in Nova Scotia.

Still hasn't sunk in though, and it probably won't until I see my mum...

I just feel....empty

Yak · Post by **Yak** » Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:12 am 0

It's normal I think, some things just seem to take a while when they are on that scale. I remember just feeling vaguely dissociated when my dad died, and just going through the motions of taking a plane trip on the way back home, feeling almost nothing, until I actually got there and everything caught up with me.

Harsh... my thoughts are with you and your family.

betamax · Post by **betamax** » Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:15 am 0

Oh WOS that's terrible news!

Here's some hugs from me.

p-saurus · Post by **p-saurus** » Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:40 am 0

I remember feeling like that when my grandfather died. I felt rational and "ok" until I managed to get home to my family, then I was able to grieve. Two years later and the hole still isn't completely filled but its not as painful as it was. I feel for you and your family.

arron · Post by **arron** » Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:44 am 0

Always bad to lose someone close to you..and without death, one could not have life. I had a bereavement in our family this week..not on the scale of your own..but it certainly shows you that death is always present. It's the one lottery that we all win sooner or later.

*hugs*

Jamesac · Post by **Jamesac** » Mon Oct 02, 2006 1:38 am 0

Wow, WoS, I'm sorry to hear that. Use the numbness to your advantage while it lasts, I guess, and keep your friends handy for when it's gone. Good luck.

James

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