I think that is "the dream of absolute capitalism", "be able to buy whatever you want to buy".MattyP wrote:Surely these days through people have higher expectations? They want all the gadgets, new cars etc etc. Sometimes its the choices people make that means they are in a situation they are in?gilesgoat wrote:merman wrote:4 million children living in poverty, 2.9 million of them in homes where one or both parents work.
But hey, it's more important to talk about which of the horrible asshats will succeed Theresa The Incompetent
Poverty apart, that's all it always worked/still working in Italy.
Fundamentally 'nearly unthinkable' in a family ( typical italian family was/is 4 people, wife, husband, max 2 children ) you don't have both parents working because normally "one salary goes for the rent/bills/taxes, the other for the food/things/children".
All this while '0 savings' because in that situation is nearly impossible to save for anything![]()
I started to have a some regular job/odd jobs at the age of 16 ( was lucky ) to have some money for myself to be able to buy some stuff I wanted ( computer ).
The fact is rent/TAXES/lot of other things makes near impossible to live with ONE salary alone ( rent and/or mortgage is the same, actually in Italy rents can be much higher than mortgages rate easily ).
If you live alone and you are lucky to have a place to stay you are not paying that much ( unless you are MEGA lucky you inherited some apartment/place ) you can go on alone with a 'standard salary' but having 'not much of a very exciting life'![]()
But yeah a thing like "one salary dad/mum pays for all we are rich we can do well" .. "does not exist" .. UNLESS .. unless you go into politics and you get 'some position in some places' .. you can see a pattern forming here ..
Not saying its 100% like that for everyone... when I was growing up we didn't have half as much "stuff" as we seem to have now... food was never wasted and hardly bought from a supermarket (usually local shops). We had the basics in the house. One TV for example for the whole family. We tended to use stuff until it fell to bits and not replace things because they were "outdated". If they had a purpose and worked they were used until they were no good! We even repaired things.
I think today we tend to choose how we spend our money differently that's all perhaps... sometimes necessitating a dual income. However I largely agree. Be interesting to work out the relative costs of say % of income going to towards accommodation and food vs average income back in the say mid 70s compared to now.
True.dat there's been some improvements in life/etc. "we can buy some more things" but it's also true IMHO that "in subtle ways" we are maybe more tied to a chain/collar than what we were before and this chain is fundamentally "debts and things we HAVE to pay".
I think some of the "real big problems" is that "we are surrounded by millions of products" MANY, MOST of which are not really essential but are "highly desirable".
And "the capitalist dream" is "you will be able to buy them, you can get rich enough" acutally NO there's NO "enough" that's the whole point that keeps all moving.
Thing is "there are at very least classes of whealt"
Also "beyond certain limits" I think cause we are in a sort of zero sum game "the EXTRA richness of someone is the poverty of someone else".
Fact is "you can't buy them all, you can't have it all" but "the consumerisms" wants you to believe that "yes you can".





